I can say that, once upon a time, waaaaaay back when I first dated Bruce, knowing I'd have my OWN SPACE was very important to me.� Now, we can generally figure out when one of us needs space, but then, well.� It wasn't so easy.
I think that going into it knowing you'll have "me space" will help you adjust.� You are moving to Ohio for many reasons.� Talcott is one of them, right?� And not the only one, I� hope.�
My thoughts on�your impression that Talcott may want the option of getting away.� That's a possibility.� Or maybe he's voicing the idea of allowing the relationship to continue to�develop on its own at a yet to be determined pace.� Or he wants to make sure you have some space for YOU.� There are a lot of reasons to have "me space."
Just my opinions, of course.