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"You've got me whipped"

poll Would you rather have someone whipped or be whipped yourself?
Have someone whipped
Be whipped
Neither
  35 Votes - 37 Posts
Results
   Discussion: "You've got me whipped"
100% dainty! · 13 years, 8 months ago

And I mean in the slang term, not as in sexual bondage. People say this a lot "my girlfriend's got me whipped." And I think a lot of girls enjoy having their boyfriends "whipped." A lot of us don't like that kind of power though.

This question came to me at like 3 AM and i thought where better to post such a question than with the Fruheads?

lawrence Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
um, what does "whipped" mean in this context, then, if it's not referring to sexual practices or actual whipping?
goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
your girlfriend has you "whipped" if she has "the power" in the relationship. cos. you know. god forbid a woman ever be stronger than a man.
nate... Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
well, yes.

They should be equals....
goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
well, yeah. if you'll check my post below, you'll see that i agree with you. unfortunately, this equality doesn't always happen.

what upsets me is that when a man has the upper hand in a heterosexual relationship, no one says anything about it. think about it: there's no slang term for the female equivalent of "whipped." on some level, whether outwardly or inwardly, many still hold to the sexist notion that women should be subordinate to men. if a woman is perceived to have the upper hand, then it's cause for deriding the man and calling him "whipped."
nate... Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
Huh.
I've actually heard it used for both men AND women.

*shrugs*
goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
really? because as i understand it, "whipped" in this context is actually short for "pussy-whipped." i'd google to be sure, but somehow i think the sites that search would bring up would be nsfw. :)
nate... Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
lol!

see, I've heard both.
I'm not sure what the origin is.... I only know how I've heard it used.
100% dainty! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago

"your girlfriend has you "whipped" if she has "the power" in the relationship. cos. you know. god forbid a woman ever be stronger than a man."

I don't mean that the man should be stronger than the woman. I think it should be equal. I dont' like the idea of anybody being a doormat. But I do know some guys who like saying, "Man, I am so whipped." in a sort of facetious way becuase it means they're head over heels and the girl has them wrapped around her finger.

My whole thing is that even though it's sometimes regarded as romantic to have that influence over someone, it creates a disequilibrium.

I prefer mutual respect and stuff. That seems to be the common response here too.

goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
i'm not saying anyone here has a problem with relationships based on mutual respect and equality. the majority of fruhead couples, at least in my experience, seem to have very strong and equal relationships.

that's interesting that you've heard people use the term in a facetious and/or romantic way; i guess my main experience with it has been hearing guys use it to put down their friends. "your girlfriend isn't letting you go to the bachelor party? dude, you're so whipped."

and like you, i don't see the romance in an unequal relationship. to me, there's nothing sweet about it.
nate... Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
Yeah.... *nods*
I've heard people use it that way, too.

Like, in the cute... guy-admitting-he's-in-love way.

Not very often, though.
angelmusicmaven Back · 13 years, 8 months ago

um, what does "whipped" mean in this context, then, if it's not referring to sexual practices or actual whipping?

There's a song to explain it all to you:

http://www.stevegoodie.com/whipped.mp3

I like either no one being whipped, or if the guy's whipped, he's only a *little* whipped. You know, as long as he still has some cajones ;)

Jºnªthªn Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
Now you'll get someone asking you about cojones...

(aren't cajones a kind of drum?)
hkath Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
You should really have clarified that before asking us to vote! Some of us have opinions on these things!
jacicita Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
word. glad i skimmed the posts instead of just voting.

*ahem*
100% dainty! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
Sorry!!! :)
danced with Lazlo · 13 years, 8 months ago
I prefer just complete honesty. No whipping.
goovie is married! · 13 years, 8 months ago
i think the whole "whipped" concept is really offensive, actually. and i'm proud to say that my relationship with my boyfriend is a *partnership* of two people who love each other and share equally in decision-making and all other aspects.

*gets off annoyingly high horse* :)
angelmusicmaven Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
And having seen you two in action, I can say this: there's just pure sugar running through the veins of your relationship. Oooey gooey love! ;);)
goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
heee! which one's ooey and which one's gooey? :)
angelmusicmaven Back · 13 years, 8 months ago

heee! which one's ooey and which one's gooey? :)

Aw heck, you guys can decide that. ;)

beth-pseudocanuck! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
or "ooey goovie love", maybe?

*giggles*
Bender Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
in the words of my new cliche, "I love you, Carey."
goovie is married! Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
i love you, too, leah.
mmm...leah. :)
Bender Back · 13 years, 8 months ago

does this mean I get to join the orgy?

Gordondon son of Ethelred Back · 13 years, 8 months ago
You aren't me so you get to join the orgy.
Tiffani · 9 years, 3 months ago
what if in a relationship both tha girl and guy are so called ''wipped'' is that a bad thing???
Gordondon son of Ethelred Back · 9 years, 3 months ago
Personally I think only cream should be whipped. mmmmwhippedcream
Tiffani · 9 years, 3 months ago
lol nice....well i cant disagree with that wipped cream is quite good ^_^ doesnt realy asnwer tha question though
Bender Back · 9 years, 3 months ago
Your question doesn't actually make sense.
Gordondon son of Ethelred Back · 9 years, 3 months ago
Yay I get to say it. The Reply Button is your friend. I'm not sure if it likes to be whipped or not. It does like to get hit.
Jerrilyh · 9 years, 3 months ago
If you're talking about physical whipping, then I'd like to whip the hell out of Dick Cheney with a spiked whip a la "Roots" style, as long as I knew no legal action could be taken against me.
Tiffani · 9 years, 3 months ago
haha well actualy i was talkin about in tha form of being head over hills for each other in a way were you dont realy ever go see you friends any more and your always talkin to each other..... it that a bad thing?
Bender Back · 9 years, 3 months ago
Sounds like teenage infatuation.  It'll pass.

Also, your English teacher should be shot.  Cripes.
Tiffani · 9 years, 3 months ago
umm i wasnt tryin ta spell correctly hun
Gordondon son of Ethelred Back · 9 years, 3 months ago
I'll try the reply button thing again. It is sort of in weird spot but on the top right portion of each post there is a reply button. You click on that if you want to reply to a post. The "Post a Message" box at the bottom are for starting a new thread in the forum. Newbies always miss it which led to the tradition of saying, "The reply button is your friend." It isn't a good friend. It never calls.
Starfox · 9 years, 3 months ago
Whip me, beat me, make me write bad checks. Some people consider what one partner does for another to be "whipped" when it's really just about acting in accordance with your feelings for the person. Case in point. My wife has to be up and out the door by 7am. I get up with her at 6am and fix coffee, pack her lunch, and take care of the pooches so she just has to worry about getting ready, dressed and out the door. Some people call me whipped since I do that. I don't consider it that at all, I do it because I love her and don't like to see her stressed out.

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