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Poll: Are you afraid of commitment?

Yes, terrified 7 (8%)
No, not at all 34 (41%)
Sometimes 36 (43%)
Uh, something I didn't think of? 6 (7%)
   Discussion: Are you afraid of commitment?
*joolee* · 17 years, 5 months ago
Unfortunately the Gods of Committment have decided the singular life is the one I'm destined to lead at this point.  *grumble*
Andrea Krause · 17 years, 5 months ago

I used to think I had issues with commitment. But to my surprise I found that it changed. I think a lot of commitment fears fade when the person you're with is the person right for you to commit to. Ya know?  This girl who thought she'd never get married or want kids now sees these in the future because of the person that future is linked to.

danced with Lazlo · 17 years, 5 months ago
...just don't think its necessary or appropriate in many situations in which others do.
zil · 17 years, 5 months ago
I'm the afraiderest.
zil Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
although.... only just recently. cause. yesh.
Annika Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
Yes.  Yes I am.
zil Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
evedence? *see present relationship*
sheryls · 17 years, 5 months ago

i say "sometimes" because sometimes i'm afraid to commit myself to something i'm not 100% sure of.

i suppose more than commitment issues i have trust issues - i have problems trusting people to that extent. i'll commit to anything that i think i can see through. otherwise, i hate to give a yes/no answer on anything.

i'm so wishy-washy. bleh.

Gordondon son of Ethelred · 17 years, 5 months ago
this question was too hard, I couldn't commit to just one answer.
Annika Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
*laugh*
emilie is CRANKY Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
haaaaa! :D
Phoenix · 17 years, 5 months ago
I voted "sometimes" - It so much depends on the person you commit to. It can make the hell of the difference and you can't seperate commitment from trust either. If I really trust someone I commit to the person without hesitation.
Mamalissa! · 17 years, 5 months ago
Getting Committed isn't so bad. They give you a nice white jacket...a little long in the sleeves, though.

;}
Andrea Krause Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
Hey I didn't get a white jacket!  I'm mad! I want my white jacket! I was robbed!
zil Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
mad. absolutely maaaad!
Gordondon son of Ethelred Back · 17 years, 5 months ago
I could never figure out the way the ties on it worked, I prefer a cardigan.
George E. Nowik · 17 years, 5 months ago

hmm.  i suppose now that i think about it, i -am- terrified of the idea.  although i'm beginning to think that everyone i know already knew that and i'm just a bit behind the ball on the memo...

 -= george =-

Andrea Krause Back · 17 years, 5 months ago

Like, hi. :)

George E. Nowik Back · 17 years, 5 months ago

well, you could have -told- me. (:

 -= george =-

emilie is CRANKY · 17 years, 5 months ago
now if only i had someone to commit -to-. :D
Phoenix · 17 years, 5 months ago

On a side note this reminds me of Carla U's hilarious song "I have to kill you now" covering the deplorable situation of committing to someone too early.

I could speculate
On what I might have said
Was it how I flunked the 7th grade
How my high school friends called me Smurfette
Did I rattle on about my cat
And talk about my allergies
And did I wonder did I blab
About my stay in drug rehab

I have to kill you now

Nathan · 17 years, 5 months ago
I'm all right as long as no one tries to make me join the Columbia Record Club.
nate... · 17 years, 5 months ago
Not at all the way I'm *supposed* to be.

;)
siobhan's a londoner · 17 years, 5 months ago

My housemates think I am "like a man" because I often run from relationships in which I have strong feelings for the other eprson or in which they have strong felings for me and therefore could lead to commitment and so come up with bad excuses (he had a side parting that made him look like an owl, we did not speak the same language, he wore a denim suit at all times!) to break up with them when the reality is I'm just scared.

I just think I'm not ready and that i will be when I meet the right person.  They don't all get this b8ut then one of them is a serial monogamist... I'd rather be happy then in an unhappy relationship just to prove I am not scared of commitment to people who though they matter do not necessarily have the most important of opinions.

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